TBT – To Walk Or Not To Walk

This is an old post I found in my drafts – a blast from the past. Spoiler alert: I walked in my graduate commencement and I am happy that I did.

Lately, I have been going back and forth about walking at my graduate school’s commencement. Since I graduated in December (or January 2014 says my transcript and diploma) and there is no ceremony then, I have the option to walk at the university-wide ceremony in May. In the football stadium. Robed and regaliaed — the whole nine yards.

Do I want that?

With walking at commencement comes the changing of work schedules (of course I am scheduled to work THAT Sunday), inviting family, and buying regalia on a post-grad budget. Most of the librarians I work with didn’t walk for theirs’, for reasons like work, family, or indifference. For me, I am weighing what the trip and the process of getting to graduation will be like the heaviest. There is one road in and one road out for a graduation from a Big Ten* university. I can already hear my mother arguing with the GPS already…

But, I am a person of pomp and circumstance. I like beginnings and endings, and I would love to walk with all of my classmates who are graduating this semester (or did so last semester with me.) My college graduation went by so quickly and I don’t feel a particular affinity for my program, but seeing them again would be excellent.

I polled the Tumblrians about this as well. They are great for anecdote-based points. Their stories were as colorful as my coworkers, but were similar in the conclusion that it is all up to me. Lemon Yellow is my favorite color…

Did you walk at any of your graduations? Would you change your choice?

*Utilizing this term to fully describe the magnitude of the university-wide graduation.

Questions of eternal significance: do you re-read books you’ve already finished?

Questions of eternal significance: do you re-read books you’ve already finished?

There are very few books that I am inclined to read more than once. Every July, I have get the itch to read Harry Potter, as I read the first four (and back then, only) books while I was at summer camp. But then again, there are many books that I equate to various summers. The New York Times devoted an entire section

What books make you think of the summer?

Do you re-read books? What are your favorites to re-read?

What I Read Last Week – 1/16

 

 

Currently – 1/13

listening :: Too Beautiful to Love and Chumped;

reading :: Love Warrior;

eating :: a turtle brownie with my mom and a California BLT;

writing :: letters and spreadsheets;

loving :: Feedly – it’s the best way to keep in the loop on everything from news to fun running blogs to library updates;

looking ahead :: to a season of work and an apartment-warming party in Hoboken this weekend with good friends.

What are you guys up?

2016 – Listed

Throughout the year I keep a list of warm-fuzzy highlights. It’s complete nonsense to the unknowing, but every bit makes makes me smile.  Here is 2016’s:

  • The Beautiful Possible
  • Getting a spilled coffee replaced
  • Catching up with Dr. Cummings in the Shakespeare book shop
  • Meeting Caleb’s Kat
  • “If you know Cassidy and Caleb you must be good company.”
  • Attending Caleb’s stage reading
  • Spring Awakening with Lisette, Katie, and Laura
  • LC – Gershwin Rhapsody in Blue NS – Meditation in Thamis CC– Appalachian Spring Song
  • “NO how are YOUR cats.”
  • Baroness – Purple
  • Pandora bracelet (Ratsmas)
  • Galentine’s cupcake from K & L
  • Sushi with Jennie
  • “They do not have your back for lunch.”
  • Balmorhea / On Being (Stranger)
  • #acleftbehind | #neverin | #cteam
  • Old Man Rafferty’s and College Fancy
  • Nutbag
  • Stage management workshop
  • “Mike’s buying shots” – they’re going to be a) cheap b) nothing good – i.e. gasoline
  • Raymond’s french fries
  • #whynotzoidberg  | #shamfriends
  • Fixing the children’s room faucet
  • Trevor’s birthday dinner
  • Metaphoric box of glass
  • $500 for a $20 pizza | #whogetsthechange
  • #greencardweddingcrashers
  • Chats with Laura
  • Tea with Nate – “Are you happy?”
  • Renwick Gallery
  • “I would hope that…”
  • *Yikes*
  • Surprising Kaytlyn
  • Dingaling
  • Ox Bellows
  • Johhny & Crystal crashing slum band practice
  • Crocsfuckcore
  • Mr. & Mrs. Lavin sharing a newspaper
  • Underwayer basketweaving
  • Sancutary in New Brunswick
  • The knee
  • GP on July 4th
  • “I’ve given uuuuup.”
  • NWHL hockey finals
  • Ness the emo lion
  • Bouldering with Jennie
  • Conveyor belt sushi
  • Pi Day with Katie and Laura
  • 300 Rainbow Trout
  • Out running a bear with Mantonio
  • Fireball and Crocs
  • DD pistachio iced coffee
  • St. Patrick @ The Office
  • Workworkwork video
  • Network: 60 Hellstreet password: killmyself
  • Thai (spring rolls) with Laura
  • “The only people who stop here are buying cigarettes.”
  • Mike’s homemade pizza
  • RU Geology Open House
  • [title of show]
  • Grease: Live!
  • RU Climbing Open House
  • VA / Laura, Katie, Nicole, and Michelle (UMW)
  • “You’re aggressive for 10AM” “You’re just aggressive enough for 10AM”
  • Raptor Trust
  • Vagina Monologues at MSU with Katie and Sabrina
  • BPM Treasurer
  • Reference Section Co-President
  • Little Bob @ the Library
  • Harry and the Potters with Clam Jam
  • “You’re late.” “I noticed” – Justin A.
  • #shamsibs
  • Sonia Sotomayor at RU “It’s not a sin to make money.”
  • TWIABP with Dan in NYC
  • “It’s been a while since I had a burger.”
  • Poems & Pies
  • Welcome to Night Vale / Amalgam / Sketchburger with Amanda
  • “This ain’t high school.” – Chris Gethard
  • Empire! Empire! I was a Lonely Estate (Last show) at 10th Street Live
  • RU piglets
  • King Falls AM
  • Chris M.
  • NJ Long Branch Half Marathon – beat the boards
  • Brooklyn (film)
  • Sea turtle scurrying on the beach
  • “It’s because you’re awesome.” Rachel P.
  • Jay Asher dancing
  • PC Sweeney / EL
  • Dark MBMBAM
  • “I could have taken a whole sleeve of saltines.”
  • “I have a story for you.”
  • Gravity Vault scavenger hunt
  • JL in Arizona
  • “Art is our middle name” (Phoenix Art Museum)
  • Hours of Fixer Upper
  • “It smells like rotten bananas”
  • Ida Mae Rosselet C.
  • “What kind of g-d Quick Check closes”
  • “Shrimp fried rice”
  • LML’s Tonys speech
  • Garlic Run 2016
  • Hamilton Mixtape
  • Delaware seaside camping with Kaytlyn
  • CT16
  • “Can I date my professor.”
  • “What happens after I die?”
  • Dirty firetruck red
  • Diner puppet
  • “Mom, get the puppet.”
  • Sussex County Paramilitary Airforce
  • 98-degree bonfire at Mike’s
  • Acadia National Park
  • Another Look podcast
  • Cassidy Charles Sleeping Outside Management
  • Park Ranger Ben
  • “How many types of blueberries are there?” “One.”
  • Huckleberry / Meat Hands Mike
  • Milky Way
  • “He’s a high brow dude.” | a 2-part TV movie from 1995 based off of a novella
  • “4 phones in this car and no directions.”
  • “We never have maps.”
  • Scaling the Beehive
  • “What’s Rocket Power?”
  • Fixy – goddess of wisdom
  • Harambe
  • Pity campsite
  • “Dear Neighbors…”
  • Shit speed
  • Wing sauce on the car ceiling
  • “Grocery shopping together is a very intimate task.”
  • “I was going to that dark place.”
  • Yes/yes/yes
  • “We’re going to Otter Creek if it kills me.”
  • Furby Target Truck Fire
  • Captain Boomerang was short.”
  • Cyclops family
  • “I’m not racist.”
  • “ALL OF THESE PURSES ARE SHAPED LIKE FRUIT.”
  • “I was prepared for the gulls, not the flies. Those are from hell.”
  • Yikkity yak, I’m gonna make you eat glass, kid.”
  • “Why the fuck do you own non-Maple syrup, you heathen.”
  • “Cassidy’s not sentimental so that probably meant a lot to her…”
  • “How clear do you think the CATS can hear us?” “Real clear”
  • “November. 8 months. Half a year.”
  • #blessingsonharambe
  • The witch’s house
  • Homemade gillysuit
  • #michaelpoole
  • “We’re just in the fucking trap now.”
  • 30th candlelight ceremony
  • A thin film of filth.
  • “I’m going to need you to throw me in the lake.”
  • “Josse, Josse, and Casey…I don’t know why I said Josse twice.”
  • Talon Robbins
  • Shitlords gonna Shit
  • Old Man Jenkins (game)
  • Mike – dabbing
  • “Why are you wearing shoes you can kick off.”
  • Volunteer of the Year
  • Kyle Kowell Memorial Bathroom Wing
  • Michael Poole v. Family Feud
  • “Watching Cassidy, Mike and Jesse crack up at Michael Poole during the Feud”
  • “I thought this was LMTI.” “OH, this is the army.” “These are some low-hanging streamers.”
  • “They are the wire management system.” “They lost the intern.”
  • “I did the homework last night because I couldn’t BS it this morning; I didn’t do it and it was a choice.”
  • “I thought I was angry before but now I’m fricken pissed.”
  • “You chose shit.”
  • “Either you can can be a leader or a shitlord.”
  • Tim Am-a-chaperone-a-hell-cabin: twin swap, lighter, mouse, and glow stick in toilet.
  • “I don’t want you to be good, I want to you to want to be good.”
  • Nahm with Jennie
  • DWG Hiking with J, T, M & M
  • “It would be more fun if you were here.”
  • Dirty Little Secrets Toxic Comedy Show with Kyle
  • NJLA Emerging Leaders
  • Becca’s love of TAZ and “Magnus rushes in”
  • *Dumpling Fest*
  • King Falls AM tweet
  • “The gum is not a litch.”
  • YAC coordinators for life
  • Bowl-making with Laura
  • Dan the Home Owner – weed-whacking in an Atreyu shirt
  • Bones & Scones 2016
  • Indian at Louisa’s
  • Indian with Jennie
  • LBI with Louisa
  • ASF16
  • “I was always looking for a person as the journey and not focusing on my own journey and how that person goes with the journey.”
  • “I really wanted to see you.”
  • Venison jerky with A & C
  • Writing Center reunion at Seig 2016
  • “So much Jesus”
  • Morristown Turkey Trot
  • “You don’t have to put airs on for me.”
  • Accidental forever nap”
  • “Okay, I’ll wear the bra.”
  • Chris Gethard’s Career Suicides
  • “You don’t get to choose what breaks you.”
  • Montclair Bread Company Donut 5K
  • #protecttheunderbelly
  • Completing an orange route at GV
  • Rogue One with Allison
  • Josh M. is not dead | #stillnotdead
  • Black Tap with Kaytlyn
  • Kaytlyn and LC meeting

And if you’re still reading, here’s a timely-song –

What I Read Last Week 12/19

The World Is… – Invalid Litter Dept. (ATDI Cover)